September 25, 2008

Pessimist Vs Optimist

Who is a pessimist? Pessimists
¨ are unhappy when they have no troubles to speak
¨ feel bad when they feel good, for fear they will feel worse when they feel better
¨ spend most of their life at complaint counters
¨ always turn out the lights to see how dark it is
¨ are always looking for cracks in the mirror of life
¨ stop sleeping in bed when they hear that more people die in bed than anywhere else
¨ cannot enjoy their health because they think they may be sick tomorrow
¨ not only expect the worst but make the worst of whatever happens
¨ don't see the doughnut, only the hole
¨ believe that the sun shines only to cast shadows
¨ forget their blessings and count their troubles
¨ know that hard work never hurts anyone but believe "why take a chance?"



Who is an optimist? It is well described by the following:
- Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
- Talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
- Make all your friends feel there is something in them.
- Look at the sunny side of everything.
- Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best.
- Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
- Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
- Give everyone a smile.
- Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others.
- Be too big for worry and too noble for anger.

From You can win by Shiv Khera, the first self-development book i own.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

To me, being an optimist is not hard coz i think i can possess all of the points listed here except one that is 'forget the mistakes of the past.' I find it hard to forget those mistakes, and whenever i think about it, the feeling of regret and shame strikes me.

Let me talk a bit about something out of the topic. I don't like filling out many things just to post comments. Did u create the process of posting comments yourself?

Unknown said...

nice, then I would prefer to be Optimist tho i'm sort of pessimist sometimes.

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