September 14, 2008

Life Phylosophy

This is probably the most important post i have ever wrote because i put all the pieces of life lesson puzzles together. A tree can stand tall because of its root. The better the root is, the stronger the tree is. Similarly, a man depends on his beliefs to succeed. Beliefs are the core, the essential part of your being, the inner you; in other words, the person inside you. Positive beliefs lead to positive attitude and positve mind set which affect every part of your life and relationship. As much as i wish i want to systematically install the following beliefs inside myself.

1. By default, people are born with good heart. By good heart, i mean they are good persons with honesty and integrity.

2. People are generally open to conversation. They may look a little mean, but we cannot tell if they like to talk or not, unless we start talking.

3. If you are too tired of saying hello, just smile to people and count how many smiles you get back. You won't believe it. Smile is the best conversation opener.

4. By telling myself i like people i talk to, i become a better conversationalist. I am even better if i talk with people i don't like, and people who don't like me.

5. The first step to make people like you is to like yourself in the first place. If you don't like yourself, why should other?

6. Know what make you happy and what make you unhappy. Do only what make you happy. Know your strenght and weakness. Keep your strenght, improve your weakness.

7. Learn something new everyday, you will be amazed by the end of the month how knowledgeable you are.

8. Play with a child in your free time. But don't act childish.

9. Don't overthink, don't overanalyse, don't spend a second try to think what other are thinking of you or it will take your own peace away. They are too busy thinking about themselves.

10. Don't forget to breath, this is the most important task.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

nice!!! thanks for sharing. I bet i follow some unconsciously! lolz...

Sopheary said...

I like number 9 the most. It's my weakness..

Rattanak said...

If you follow them unconsciously, basically you own them already. For me, some points i am still conscious about, and i am trying to make them unconscious.

pm, if u know ur weakness, follow step 6.